It's only natural, that the seductress causes the lust of our flesh to rise up within us like a serpent. That's what she believes she needs to do, to lure a catch and she can be very alluring to the natural eye.
However, those who rule over their realm (kingdom) of self, do so with self-control and don't allow themselves to be ruled or their character to become stained (corrupted), by the beast of their flesh. They are perfect gentlemen and gentlewomen of true love, saints by any other name, who know WHAT true love is and that it is not religious in any way, but is absolutely virtuous, without any trace of the characteristic pride, vanity, envy, selfishness, ambition, lust, greed, desire for creature comfort or fear for survival, of the instinctual, egocentric nature of the flesh.
TRUE saints, are those who've got over themselves, absolutely and live for love with all their heart, mind, body and soul (absolutely), according to true love's absolute holiness, peacefulness, gracefulness and graciousness, with absolute equanimity, humility, cooperativeness and joy, without a care in the world and like a little child-at-heart, though far from childish. It's not something they have to think about, it's perfectly natural for them and true love governs and dictates their every thought, word and deed, with its majestic virtues, and are incorruptible.
Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.Proverbs 31:10-31
Read more about the seductress HERE